Death and the Heart

So I've noticed a few things about working in a veterinary clinic...you deal with death pretty much every day. And you deal with near death even more.

Yes, they are animals, but death is death. It does something to the human heart. There is a mystery to it of course. We all try and think of something to make ourselves feel better about losing something beloved. I guess that makes death easier. Maybe that's why people think that people who believe in God and Heaven are pathetic. It kinda seems like a cop out...but...it's a good thing that it's about a relationship with your Creator and not a stamp that says "Heaven-approved."

I digress...what I mean is...how does one deal with death? According to a study done by Psychology Today, "For many years now, physicians have had the highest suicide rate compared to people in any other line of work." This includes GI docs, Cardiologists, Veterinarians, Primary-Care Physicians and Psychiatrists. Why?

Well, my theory is they deal with other people's problems daily and aren't sure how to shake it off. It's hard really. Compassion and taking on your neighbor's trials are two completely different things. I had to learn this lesson a few years ago.

I used to be an ear for a few girls in college and quickly found myself thinking about their issues 24/7. I mean unhealthily...keeping me awake at night...bringing me to tears. What I realized is that you can have compassion on someone without assuming the predicaments they are in yourself.

My husband describes it as "the circle." Never go inside "the circle." The person you may be helping or listening to is inside the circle and there is not enough room for you in it. So naturally, stepping inside the circle has got to be pretty uncomfortable.

One of my NY's resolutions is to continue to practice that....and to blog more of course.

Also, on the list is:

1. Saying "no"
2. Getting in shape (cliche, yes)
3. Sending cards to people when I think of them
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I'll complete the list in my next post...

"New Year/New Beginning"

Thanks for reading.

I pray a peaceful New Year to you and yours.

Holly